Wednesday, July 20, 2005
Why the hell does it have to be that we appreciate people ONLY when they are out of our lives? Do we realize that they weren’t that bad as they were made out to be or do we simply feel that now that the person is away for good we gotta pay respect to their memory by thinking kindly of them?
Hell, I’ rather have the said person there and bitch whole heartedly about them then feel remorse AND guilty at all the unkind things I said about them AFTER they’ve gone.
Think about it. Which option would you rather choose? In my case it would have to be the former. I mean, none can hold up a candle to that spiteful feeling called “guilt”. Just think what would happen if you were saddled with BOTH guilt and remorse? I’d be a wreck. But then, that’s just my opinion of course.